Are you the type of man who is clueless when it comes to approaching women? Why does it seem that some men don’t even have try when making romantic advances on women? Time after time do you find yourself as a friend instead of as the romantic partner that you had envisioned for women when you first approach them?
1) Bowl her over with laughter. Ancient wisdom says laughter is the best medicine. Perhaps it was someone in a marriage that has had a few ups and downs that coined the phrase. While adultery is on the downswing for the average marriage it doesn’t have to be the final out for your marriage. She used to laugh at your jokes. Your mission now is to find out if she was really amused or just so in love with you that she laughed for the sake of your ego. Cheating may be no laughing matter but any marriage worth hanging onto should be filled with love and laughter.
Enjoy each other. Part of any relationship is the fact that there are some things the two of you enjoy together. More often than not you’ve entered a rut and finding something enjoyable together can be a rut eliminator.
Yes, candy is a lovely gift for a first Valentine’s Day. As corny as it sounds, I suggest buying candy in a heart-shaped box. It’s very flattering to a woman to know that you’re thinking of her romantically. Plus, who doesn’t love candy?!
It is obvious, but so often overlooked by men, that you need to let a girl know that you like her with keen communication. Girls love humor, and non-aggressive flirting is key, and a hint of cockiness will insinuate that the encounter is still casual and therefore pressure free. You may want to lightly tease at her to evoke that you see her for all of her faults and adore them as quirks. Being funny is a definite advantage, women appreciate light-heartedness in things that can easily become too heavy, such as fuck book. Something about trying to hard can easily come off as unflattering.
Demonstrate qualities that make relationships last. Honesty, loyalty, understanding, trust and most importantly forgiveness has to exist in a relationship. Forgiveness is essential because making mistakes is as human as human can get. But forgiveness when your partner has hurt you can be hard to do but has to be done for the relationship to succeed.
For writers who just can’t envision any happy endings to their story consider this; while there may not be a happily ever after, there are times of rest and a sense of well-being where characters can enjoy a rest before their next adventure.